Love, Mom

Sometimes, this mother/daughter thing isn’t so easy. Personalities, hormones and tempers flare; a high tide washing over deep love.

She started out in life fighting; fighting to breathe, to grow and to stay alive while we prayed and stood watch. Watching, believing and waiting for God to move. She was our baby girl. He had to save her.

Praise God - He did.

We’ve had moments, storms and victories, memories along the way that steel the breath and bring the tears. Rejoicing over all the “firsts’ thus far and anticipating the ones yet to come.

It all flashes by, the years revealed in the flutter of graduation gowns and in promises held for the future.

I’m thanking God today for my daughter; for her spirit, her fire, her dreams, her beautiful smile…and her life.

Congratulations to you, Elise

Love, Mom

Congratulations to the graduating class of 2012!

Be safe and be blessed!

What Affirmation Looks Like

“…being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

(Phil. 1:6) NIV

I hurry with the hose from one end of the garden to the other. The afternoon heat really takes its toll on my poor butterfly bush. Leaves on the shrubs are drooping and even the vines are finding it hard to cling to their supports.

I look at my sad garden and shake my head – I can SO relate; it’s easy to droop, to wilt and feel discouraged; to forget about pushing through the dirt and shine your face to the Son.

It’s easy to get caught up in what I’m not able to accomplish….

”but, do you really believe He’d give you a dream and a task if He expected you to do it alone?” I remind myself.

“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”

(John 15:5) NIV

 

Affirmation is all around the garden. God began a good work in each and every living thing planted in the soil. He knew the gift and the joy each element would bring. Through the storms and the heat of day, God’s purpose still remains.

He knows all about your storms, too. He’s there when you’re wilting and defeated, yet He plans to grow you so you may bloom anyway.

Look around. There’s affirmation all around you. It’s there in the garden. There in a child’s eyes. You feel it deep down when you cross one finish line and race toward the next….it’s the completion of what God began in you; faith and hope carried out.

It seems that just when you think you’ve lost your spark and lost your vision, He speaks to the cold center of discouragement and whispers, “….but my plans for you remain. I’ve chosen you to carry this out and I’m here with you as you do.”

I love how the Lord works – just when we’ve lost our way and lost our hope, He somehow breathes life back into the dream…back into His purpose for us.

It only takes that one phone call – that one conversation – that one word that sets everything right again. It tells the heart that you’re doing the right thing by holding firm in your faith even when giving in is easier and a shorter distance to crawl. He somehow brings light to discouragement and sets you back on course. With your feet firmly planted in faith, things just seem to come together NOT “out of the blue,” but straight FROM His hands!

Lost YOUR vision?

Lost YOUR spark?

Don’t do it for YOU – do it for HIM!

Maybe the solution is to start out faithful – and finish there, as well.

May He affirm His plans and purpose for you today!

Many Blessings,

Debbie

Discernment

I love to challenge myself when I go to the nursery or visit other gardens. I want and need to know the names of every plant I see; the Latin for some and the common for others. Sounds strange, I know, but it’s just a little game I play; sort of my own personal “Jeopardy”.

I do the same when identifying the poisonous or toxic plants, and there are many. Some, are quite deceptive, like the foxglove, hydrangea, azalea and brugmansia (angel’s trumpet), to name a few. They’re beautiful and unique each in their own way but are highly poisonous if ingested or even inhaled in some cases.

I think life requires the same discernment in identifying what is beautiful through and through as opposed to that which only holds its attraction on the surface. It’s so easy to be misled by the beauty and allure of something that we believe will benefit us in some way. We think we can identify what is from the Lord and what is not. And sometimes, we end up with something just as toxic and unhealthy as the plants listed above.

 

So, what is the best way to identify God and His will for us when making decisions in our lives? The answer is simple: by staying in constant communication with Him.

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances;

for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

(1 Thessalonians 6:16-18) NIV

Heavenly Father,

Help each of us to use discernment and sound judgment in our daily lives. Bless the reader of these words with your presence today. Give clarity to confusion and Lord, help us all to identify the many traces of you throughout each day.

In your name, we pray….Amen.

Rocks in the Soil

Even now…even after so many years of working the soil and tending the blessings of my little garden space… I’m amazed that God still teaches me life lessons in all that lies beyond the splintered gate.

I share a lot about my passion and love for my garden, probably because that’s where He speaks to me – there, in my space, in our time together, in the tending and in the doing; the sowing and the reaping.

Even now…even after all these years of the garden evolving and my faith growing…neither is without its “rocks;” those obstacles that hinder growth and divert a root’s path. Praise God that the rocks don’t kill the roots, but merely change its course! When God sets growth in motion, the roots simply go around or incorporate the obstacles somehow…yet continue to produce the blessing.

We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.             (2 Cor. 4:8-9)

Even now…even after all these years, He’s still growing me, allowing the rocks but also providing fertile soil. I praise Him for the blessings, for the lessons learned…and for the rocks.

And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work. (2 Cor. 9:8)

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To Touch a Hummingbird

He stood for the longest time there in the corner of the yard, intent and still in shorts and bare feet in the grass. There, in the corner of my eye but just out of focus and the sun, like warm honey on his hair.

I, with knees in the dirt digging, planting, and he content to wait out his mission with hand outstretched.

Baby sister asleep upstairs and afternoon shade a welcome relief.

Then, a whisper…excitement stifled, and I turn.

“Momma, look! Look!” he smiles, the words quiet from his lips.

My trowel drops and I turn. My boy with the patience I never had – patience to wait for the hummingbird. There, with his little boy finger caressing the tiny head and the hummingbird trusting him anyway.

I wonder who waited for who…

”Be still in the presence of the Lord, and wait patiently for him to act.

Don’t worry about evil people who prosper or fret about their wicked schemes. Stop being angry! Turn from your rage! Do not lose your temper—it only leads to harm. For the wicked will be destroyed, but those who trust in the Lord will possess the land.”

Psalm 37:7-9

Are you waiting upon the Lord today, or is He waiting for you?

Growth Habits

It was a sweet little cape mallow that I grew from a simple cutting in the greenhouse. I nurtured it, cared for it, watered it then planted it out in the garden and watched this new little life form sprout new growth as it stretched up straight and tall. I wanted to grow it as a “standard” maintaining its lolly-pop-like clump of foliage and pretty pink flowers atop a single, clean trunk. The look is more formal; its intent and purpose undeniable. However, without the constant pruning and upkeep, if left unattended, my little tree would have taken on a free-flowing shape growing only as the wind directed.

It takes a lot of work to be a “standard;” one who holds firm in her beliefs and understanding with a will that defies the shifting winds. Like my little mallow, it takes good, strong roots to hold the stalk in place. It takes clear understanding of who you are and Who you’re “growing” for.

To simply plant out my cutting in the garden only to be left to survive on its own would have yielded completely different results, becoming a thick ball of a shrub.

Instead, my constant attention to its growth provided the perfect home for a mama finch to build her nest and hatch a family of little finch babies….one of many unexpected blessings.

“Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong.”

(1 Cor. 16:13) NIV

Lord Jesus,

Help the reader of these words grow as a standard for you. May we each keep our eyes and our purpose solely on you. Help us to not become distracted or enticed with things of life that are not of you. Keep us focused on your Word and seeking to be a blessing to others.

In Jesus’ name. Amen